Comments on: The dreaded Routine http://www.minishorts.net/2005/04/14/the-dreaded-routine/ this time, we're keeping it simple. Thu, 08 Jan 2009 21:14:38 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: ba11z http://www.minishorts.net/2005/04/14/the-dreaded-routine/comment-page-1/#comment-7853 ba11z Wed, 17 Aug 2005 09:20:47 +0000 http://www.minishorts.net/?p=205#comment-7853 so true... great comment kenny :) so true…

great comment kenny :)

]]> By: eliz http://www.minishorts.net/2005/04/14/the-dreaded-routine/comment-page-1/#comment-5468 eliz Tue, 21 Jun 2005 02:40:16 +0000 http://www.minishorts.net/?p=205#comment-5468 *sigh...* *sigh…*

]]> By: Mike http://www.minishorts.net/2005/04/14/the-dreaded-routine/comment-page-1/#comment-3411 Mike Sun, 17 Apr 2005 20:13:54 +0000 http://www.minishorts.net/?p=205#comment-3411 Sorry! Got errors on previous posting attepts! :oops: Sorry! Got errors on previous posting attepts! :oops:

]]> By: Mike http://www.minishorts.net/2005/04/14/the-dreaded-routine/comment-page-1/#comment-3410 Mike Sun, 17 Apr 2005 20:12:45 +0000 http://www.minishorts.net/?p=205#comment-3410 Have they really found love then? Where it is physically painful to be apart? Where words arent necessary? Or are all the "check off list" items more important? Many people find their true love later in life, wishing they hadnt "settled". Have they really found love then? Where it is physically painful to be apart? Where words arent necessary? Or are all the “check off list” items more important?
Many people find their true love later in life, wishing they hadnt “settled”.

]]> By: N'Drew http://www.minishorts.net/2005/04/14/the-dreaded-routine/comment-page-1/#comment-3344 N'Drew Fri, 15 Apr 2005 06:55:34 +0000 http://www.minishorts.net/?p=205#comment-3344 I agree with your post. So so true ... :D I agree with your post. So so true … :D

]]> By: AWM user http://www.minishorts.net/2005/04/14/the-dreaded-routine/comment-page-1/#comment-3343 AWM user Fri, 15 Apr 2005 06:38:51 +0000 http://www.minishorts.net/?p=205#comment-3343 Kenny Sia, good post. Not all relationships are doomed because the "mushy" stuff is over. I've taken mine to a different level. The Jedi Master level... hehehe. We use mind control and ESP... and we know what we are thinking without even saying it. Just kidding. ... instead of saying it... we practice it. We do things for each other... there's no 50-50. I think she does more for me than I do for her. Hahaha... that's why I am marrying her. Kenny Sia, good post.

Not all relationships are doomed because the “mushy” stuff is over. I’ve taken mine to a different level. The Jedi Master level… hehehe. We use mind control and ESP… and we know what we are thinking without even saying it. Just kidding.

… instead of saying it… we practice it. We do things for each other… there’s no 50-50. I think she does more for me than I do for her. Hahaha… that’s why I am marrying her.

]]> By: RL http://www.minishorts.net/2005/04/14/the-dreaded-routine/comment-page-1/#comment-3334 RL Fri, 15 Apr 2005 04:15:08 +0000 http://www.minishorts.net/?p=205#comment-3334 If you think now is bad, wait till you see when the relationship progress further... not saying that it's bad. It will come a time when you will be relieved when your partner is away for a while. You will have some time truely on your own and doing your own things without having to think about your partner. For me it is a good thing that once a while both of us are away. It reinforce our feelings for each other. If you or your partner does not feel this away.... I guess it is time to move on..... If you think now is bad, wait till you see when the relationship progress further… not saying that it’s bad. It will come a time when you will be relieved when your partner is away for a while. You will have some time truely on your own and doing your own things without having to think about your partner.

For me it is a good thing that once a while both of us are away. It reinforce our feelings for each other. If you or your partner does not feel this away…. I guess it is time to move on…..

]]> By: aish http://www.minishorts.net/2005/04/14/the-dreaded-routine/comment-page-1/#comment-3332 aish Fri, 15 Apr 2005 03:38:43 +0000 http://www.minishorts.net/?p=205#comment-3332 Totally agree with AWM. my fiance and I are not as "passionate" as b4, but knowing where we came from and where we are heading keep our relationship stronger than ever. have goals to achieve together! it's fun and satisfying when you can tick 1 item off your goals list. like wine, relationships need to mature and grow, and this process takes a life time, sometimes it's painful even, but u know at the end of day, it's worth it all, bcos the both of u hav sweated and put in effort to build a solid foundation for ur relationship. have fun and God bless! :razz: Totally agree with AWM. my fiance and I are not as “passionate” as b4, but knowing where we came from and where we are heading keep our relationship stronger than ever.

have goals to achieve together! it’s fun and satisfying when you can tick 1 item off your goals list.

like wine, relationships need to mature and grow, and this process takes a life time, sometimes it’s painful even, but u know at the end of day, it’s worth it all, bcos the both of u hav sweated and put in effort to build a solid foundation for ur relationship.

have fun and God bless! :razz:

]]> By: murraychen http://www.minishorts.net/2005/04/14/the-dreaded-routine/comment-page-1/#comment-3330 murraychen Fri, 15 Apr 2005 03:35:04 +0000 http://www.minishorts.net/?p=205#comment-3330 Nice post, as always :grin: But I'll have to disagree about the 'routine miss-yous'. 'I miss yous' and 'I love yous' should never, ever be a routine thing to say. That spells the beginning of the end of the r'ship. In my opinion, honeymoons need not end. It's really up to the couple to spice up their relationship and to prevent dreariness from setting in. It's called 'commitment'. Nice post, as always :grin:

But I’ll have to disagree about the ‘routine miss-yous’. ‘I miss yous’ and ‘I love yous’ should never, ever be a routine thing to say. That spells the beginning of the end of the r’ship.

In my opinion, honeymoons need not end. It’s really up to the couple to spice up their relationship and to prevent dreariness from setting in. It’s called ‘commitment’.

]]> By: Kenny Sia http://www.minishorts.net/2005/04/14/the-dreaded-routine/comment-page-1/#comment-3329 Kenny Sia Fri, 15 Apr 2005 03:10:22 +0000 http://www.minishorts.net/?p=205#comment-3329 Hey Chookie, gotta agree with AWM up there. Relationship grows and grows into a different area. Sad fact of life, maybe, but reality nonetheless. One *can* continue with the constant barrage of I-love-yous and I'll-call-yous even after the honeymoon period, but after a while it felt like what you refer to as a necessity. What can one do to keep the flame burning? It grew into care, caring for each other, caring for the kids the two lovers bear. It grew into a genuine intent to share life for eternity. There's no need to say I-love-yous anymore. When two people's lives are so intertwine, its understood. Hey Chookie, gotta agree with AWM up there.

Relationship grows and grows into a different area. Sad fact of life, maybe, but reality nonetheless. One *can* continue with the constant barrage of I-love-yous and I’ll-call-yous even after the honeymoon period, but after a while it felt like what you refer to as a necessity.

What can one do to keep the flame burning? It grew into care, caring for each other, caring for the kids the two lovers bear. It grew into a genuine intent to share life for eternity. There’s no need to say I-love-yous anymore. When two people’s lives are so intertwine, its understood.

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