perhaps its just my charm or shear love we have for each other, or maybe the 2 month time we couldn’t directly see each other since I was at college. When I came back for a quick vacation (long d relation, but still working out fine), I took the time to setup a romantic night (spa bath at her home). We went through a total of 2 hours of foreplay and she finally told me “do it.” I guarantee 100% to anyone she was relaxed, you could just see it in the slight retractions, and unlike the author, wet, really really really wet.

I’m not going to lie this was also my first time too. Well I tell ya, your penis is not going to smoothly fit through the stretched hymen unless it was a pencil. reading a few online articles I heard it was considerably painful, so I told her that, but she didn’t mind, so I just shoved my way in. Arched back and slight moan and everything like a fake orgasm (my current comparison, I wasn’t thinking this at time of penetration), like dam “blood on my stick”. We’re happy now, but she did later admit it wasn’t all “that” painful, just a very sharp stab of pain.

moral: author is right, just had one of the bad experiences,; use setup, use foreplay, use “miss you” factor