Same question to two of you
Friday, August 12th, 2005 @ 11:02 am | Gender-bender
I was typing something when the stupid computer decided to choke on me.
So anyway… while I fix a few things here, humour me us, just a question…
Guys: You prefer her to be experienced or not experienced?
Girls: You prefer him to be experienced or not experienced?
Her/Him, refers to THE one.
Thank you.
August 12th, 2005 at 11:21 am
There’s a reason in ancient times men used to pay top dollar for virgin girls. Inexperience has a weird pull.
August 12th, 2005 at 11:38 am
‘One good virgin deserves another.’
August 12th, 2005 at 11:43 am
Lol. I’m an innocent girl here. Really. So I’ll want an experienced dude.
Or it’ll be a game of the ‘blind leading the blind’. Gah.
August 12th, 2005 at 11:43 am
Some experience is good. If too much might as well just hire gigolo.
August 12th, 2005 at 11:44 am
I do prefer new things over second hand/re-con goods…
I guess it will get better when the two of you gain more experience off each other… as for cross references and new styles and positions, you’ll have to read-up and do your own research…
August 12th, 2005 at 11:51 am
Not experienced.
August 12th, 2005 at 11:54 am
I would prefer her to be experienced, no doubt on it.
I’m sure she would expect me to have some experience as well, wouldn’t she?
I guess most woman like their partner to have some experience in order to take the lead role, don’t they?
August 12th, 2005 at 12:13 pm
I prefer them with experience, but I prefer them to just have “theoretical” experiences that come from porno videos instead of “practical” experiences that come from ummm… other people.
August 12th, 2005 at 12:17 pm
guys who answer not experience..so the girl wont know when he is not good!..ha..ha…
August 12th, 2005 at 12:23 pm
SaDdNesZ.jc: second hand/recon goods? that remark is quite appalling
August 12th, 2005 at 12:24 pm
No need to bother about experience lah. Just buy my new book:
“Sex in one step; Learn which part go into what.”
RM 9.99 Cheap.
And if you have to bargain the price down, then you’re not ready for sex yet.
August 12th, 2005 at 12:46 pm
apa pun boleh. no biggie to me. as long as there are future experiences… hehe
August 12th, 2005 at 1:22 pm
Both virgins. Can explore and improve together. Much more fun like that. Coz if experienced, u’ll tend to imagine him with all those other girls and the paranoia will start.
August 12th, 2005 at 1:33 pm
Experienced of course.. some things cannot be taught and needs to be gained by experience
August 12th, 2005 at 1:54 pm
Experience is good. W/o emotional baggage is perfect.
August 12th, 2005 at 2:23 pm
Mmm..,Both without experience would be nice. Like zzlim puts it - the pleasure of exploring each other slowly and gradually…with mistakes, fumbles and all…a mutual growing and nurturing of each other.
August 12th, 2005 at 2:30 pm
Lainie, whose emotional baggage, yours or his/hers?
i think the Other’s experience can create emotional baggage for One. especially when One knows or has seen the Other’s Ex.
but on the whole i think experienced is better. if the Other is not experienced (i won’t say virgin because some people have done everything BUT the kitchen sink), the Other may be secretly wondering about what it’s like with someone else!
August 12th, 2005 at 2:53 pm
tried both… definitely the experienced one takes the cake
August 12th, 2005 at 3:03 pm
Can share-share one-meh? I certainly wont be able to deal with his past bedroom stuff going on and on in my mind,,,,,,
August 12th, 2005 at 4:12 pm
best to have both ..:twisted:
August 12th, 2005 at 4:41 pm
Rule of the thumb from a non-virgin
If you are a virgin girl, make sure he is a virgin too. Baru tak rugi mah.
If you are a virgin guy, don’t embarass yourself. Go find an experienced paid-by-the-hour to teach you some techniques first.
After that hor, girls, ditch that inexperience one and find an experience one. And remember….no matter how many experiences, if a creep ask you he is number what, always replied - You are the 2nd one. Always the SECOND one and gave him some soppy “my first was about to marry me but he ditched me” stories. It works all the time!
Err…this info is only limited to mini’s blog.
August 12th, 2005 at 4:43 pm
Where in the heavens can one find virgin chicks these days?
In the wet market?
But for all those Young Chikus who really are that green when it comes to sex & all intricacies relating to sex, you can check out stuff (books, videos, sex-toys, etc) by America’s famous sex-guru Betty Dodson (www.bettydodson.com).
If you are in Singapore,I think you may be able to order her stuff via internet.
If you are in M’sia, sorry lah….
August 12th, 2005 at 4:59 pm
If THE guy is experienced…means he slept (I can’t seem to use the F word coz Spam Karma mcm ban me) around alot or prolly ’slept’ alot with his ex. The thought of it makes me wanna puke…I’m more conservative when it comes to this matter.
So I prefer both to be experienceless…more fun
Eh Pak Kadok…virgin chiqs are not easy to find but you would be surprise that some of most virgins chiqs happen to be the lan ci and pretty ones
August 12th, 2005 at 5:00 pm
experienced is more prefered but hopefully the experienced one won’t make comparision.
August 12th, 2005 at 5:24 pm
A lot of ppl say they can never forget the first time. Must have something to do with the wonder of inexperience.
August 12th, 2005 at 5:33 pm
I prefer someone who turns up!
Actually, I don’t care. The fun is making them orgasm. I prefer someone who has a good heart and is a nice person. Sexual experience doesn’t matter. I can teach.
August 12th, 2005 at 5:53 pm
gee… am i a blown-fused from another planet here? minishort, what do u mean by experienced???? experienced in life, relationship, sex etc…?
if (s)he refers to THE ONE, guess (s)he will somehow influence all sides of your life… so experienced or not… dun know, depends on the issue at hand. there’s a duelity in all things.
advantages/disavantages - experienced/not & vice versa. if it’s sex we r talking abt here, it doesn’t matter, sex is always a pleasure as long as you dun fake orgasm.
August 12th, 2005 at 5:59 pm
For those who say they can’t forget the 1st time, well, what they can’t forget must be the mess that they have made - guys who spilled for no reason whatsoever,& girls who read that waves will splash & so on & found out that things aren’t as what they have naively presumed so.
I still prefer an experienced chick.
You Young Chikus out there can have all the mother of the virgin ones…
August 12th, 2005 at 6:39 pm
kenny, THEM? u into lots of kinky orgies huh?
who cares about experience? i say passion, consideration & connection count for a lot more.. skills can always be developed..:P
and of course, practice makes perfect!
August 12th, 2005 at 6:40 pm
i am a guy. personally, i like an experienced woman in the sack. then we can go straight down to fun.
i like one of the reply, both, doing it with the experienced one while the young apperentice watch and you become the homework. yahoo!!!!
August 12th, 2005 at 6:42 pm
experience would be good. can’t be arsed to sit around waiting for him to find this or that, not even if he’s THE ONE.
but I never attract virgin bois anyway so that’s not a problem
August 12th, 2005 at 7:40 pm
experienced
August 12th, 2005 at 7:50 pm
virgin.
=D
sorry bout what i said, i deleted the post in my site.
August 12th, 2005 at 8:05 pm
Oh those questions so exclude the homosexuals amongst us.
August 12th, 2005 at 9:52 pm
No experience. Just like me. Can learn together
August 12th, 2005 at 10:14 pm
I only lup men who can teach me new things…
August 12th, 2005 at 11:25 pm
Doesn’t matter so long as you know which is the right hole…
August 12th, 2005 at 11:28 pm
I like to go where NO MAN has gone before !!:lol:
(But seriously, his(her)tory is not as impt as the future)
August 13th, 2005 at 12:35 am
Girl here says experienced please.
August 13th, 2005 at 12:46 am
Not experienced but ready to try out new things with me.
August 13th, 2005 at 2:14 am
Of cos the experienced one will certainly be more fun…:roll:
August 13th, 2005 at 4:10 am
experienced does not necessarily equal good -
just cos someone’s been fucking a long time don’t mean they know how to fuck.
August 13th, 2005 at 7:46 am
Ya, you girls wants an inexperienced guy so that you can see him eject prematurely….
August 13th, 2005 at 8:27 am
V or no V doesn’t really make much of a difference… I love a person for who she is, not just because of a piece of tissue
August 13th, 2005 at 8:45 am
I NEED to say this.
Guys who are experienced totally DON’T HAVE TO RIGHT TO EXPECT THEIR CHICKS TO BE VIRGINS.
-END-
August 13th, 2005 at 9:56 am
I guess I prefers one who loves me a lot…. Man and woman consummate not because we want to have more fun.. only. If both is in experience we learn together…. if both is experince its a bonus. If one is not then the other one with the knowledge leads and teach.
August 13th, 2005 at 10:04 am
Who wants virgins?
Virgins mean tight, syok?
Non-virgins are tighter as they have better grips…
August 13th, 2005 at 10:11 am
Kegels, kegels! Master damn kegels and give them guys a PE.
August 13th, 2005 at 12:33 pm
inexperience then not only is it fair u can also learn together…
if experienced of course u get to learn things from him…
hrm but for me as long as i love him it is fine…
August 13th, 2005 at 1:46 pm
why bother? as long as the action is enjoyable by both parties. but i say, the respopnsibility mainly lies with the guy. thus the chap must go and reseach first lar. for virgins, there are a few good books on sex in the market, and these are non-porn ok? anyway, can always check out your regular Uncle Ho rep….
August 13th, 2005 at 2:40 pm
Definately with exprience!!
I have got a tough time coaching one without experience.. and it takes a whole month for me to loosen her up.
P/S: Anyone with a fast-up tips on this? Mail me… hahahaha
August 13th, 2005 at 2:54 pm
:twisted:yaba yaba
August 13th, 2005 at 2:54 pm
:twisted:What do you mean by inexperience?
August 13th, 2005 at 3:56 pm
i don’t wanna my “lollipop” to be licked and shared b4 i get to taste it. do u?
am currently reading this book called “Emotional Purity”. a very good book i would recommend to those singles and parents out there.
August 13th, 2005 at 4:38 pm
I prefer experienced! Slightly experienced is enough, not that I want my gf to sleep with many guys before me :shudders:
And I agree with Fuckstress too.
What is so nice about virgin lah? You want your partner or your partner’s ‘virginity’?
August 13th, 2005 at 6:01 pm
i haven’t try the “inexperienced” yet…so can’t compare ;P
August 13th, 2005 at 11:37 pm
both inexperience male and female, getting experienced together
that would be the best fer me 
August 14th, 2005 at 1:04 am
aleh, no preference one way or the other. just take her the way she come.
August 14th, 2005 at 6:09 am
[...] 17;s Scribbled Scribblings
Overrated experience August 14, 2005 Minishorts asks, “Do you prefer him to be experienced or not experienced?” [...]
August 14th, 2005 at 2:22 pm
virgin pls..:grin:
August 14th, 2005 at 3:14 pm
Most chicks outside are no longer virgins.
Even most of the young chicks in Monash & Sunway College are getting laid early.
To those who still harbor naive thoughts of getting virgin chicks, you can only find them now in the wet markets…
August 14th, 2005 at 4:16 pm
the guy has to be experienced. period.
either that, or a complete natural.
is that possible?
August 14th, 2005 at 10:18 pm
Experienced lover, please. Truth be told, men don’t like women who does nothing but lie there like a dead fish. Experience is good, unless she’ve slept with half the population..
August 14th, 2005 at 11:49 pm
inexperienced for the guy….can rape him…:razz:
August 15th, 2005 at 2:19 am
Experience/Inexperience, which hole first?
August 15th, 2005 at 10:06 am
the guy is so experienced that nothing exictes him anymore. the woman also same.
experience made the man impotent and the woman frigid. fuck!
August 15th, 2005 at 10:08 am
Star Trek Syndrome is over-hyped.
Breaking in a newbie is alaways tiresome. -.-”
August 15th, 2005 at 2:56 pm
oh dear i miss the haze… NOT! HAZE finally CLEARING~~~ Going to FRIM (Forest Research Institute of Malaysia) for a run!! waterfall …waterfall!! here i come!!! YEHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA~!!! andale andale!! eepa eeepaaa!!
August 15th, 2005 at 3:52 pm
‘Experienced’ for me.
I guess many guys go for virgin girls ‘cos of fear of comparision with previous partners. On the other hand, why do you think ladies go for mature men?
August 15th, 2005 at 4:09 pm
why… u planning to get laid ke…
August 15th, 2005 at 4:53 pm
Many guys tend to hope every girl they sleep with are virgins…1.how you know for sure? 2. does it matter? 3.men are more sensitive and egoistic..(i hate to say this about my own breed)
ladies going for matured men..in what way matured?
August 15th, 2005 at 7:18 pm
experienced. definately.
August 15th, 2005 at 7:36 pm
if hes virgin, i’ll go ahead…any volunter?
August 16th, 2005 at 12:55 am
Experienced. Because I’m not - so someone have to be the one leading things, right?
Plus, I get quesy when I see bloody.
But then again, I would prefer inexperienced also - for the same reason (don’t want her to thing she’s having the worst sex ever… she can’t - she couldn’t compare).
August 16th, 2005 at 1:22 am
I bengified ur site via Kenny Sia’s powderful bengifier.
KNNCCB!! Limpeh was typing something when the kanina computer decided to choke on me.
So anyway… while Limpeh fix a few things here, humour me us, just a question…
Guys: You prefer that siao ginah to be experienced or not experienced?
Girls: You prefer the lan jiao face to be experienced or not experienced?
Her/Him, refers to THE one.
Thank you.
August 16th, 2005 at 2:34 am
[...] uth be told, men don’t like women who do nothing but lie there like a dead fish.” ~Kenn Newsflash - truth be told, women don’t like men who make gross generalisations, ridicu [...]
August 16th, 2005 at 2:44 am
[...] d, it might even be undesirable August 16, 2005 I can’t stand it. Back to Minishorts’s question: “Do you prefer him to be experienced or not experienced?” More inanity: ̶ [...]
August 16th, 2005 at 3:51 am
It’s always good to have a gf wit experiences
then again. i will chose to be with an inexperience if im ready to settle down.
I will neva fuck a virgin if im not ready to commit mysef..
wan to fuck..fuck by the rules!!
August 16th, 2005 at 3:55 am
If u guys knows that it’s just for pleasure sake n no attachment to it..then experience plays an important role here..
If u wan her for the rest of yur life…thenu wan it to be tight n ‘FOR YOUR USE ONLY’ coz u r goin to use it till the end of yur days..
August 16th, 2005 at 3:56 am
u’ll always know whether she THE ONE for u after a few TRY!!
August 16th, 2005 at 11:36 am
Both are o-kay. It’s what she’ll do for the rest of her life that matters.
August 17th, 2005 at 5:10 pm
I agree with narrowband
August 25th, 2005 at 3:27 pm
Oh I definitely prefer my lovers skilled.
Not really into an awkwardly inexperienced thing wielding a sword he couldn’t handle.
Unless I’m in a cruel mood, then I’d probably have fun screwing up the sex life of an inexperienced boy by giving a superior performance, ensuing in an unrealistically high yardstick for his measurement.