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Kuzco asked for a photo of the lake now that the haze is gone, and I obliged. This is the lake that was missing in action a week before. I took this with my camera phone.

Considering the fact that so many of you responded, I thought that it would have been quite fun to completely ignore the previous post and talk about something completely different altogether. Oh you know, I'm very very prone to jumping thoughts in the middle of a heated topic.

As Lady Luck would have put it, I'm seriously in a fatalistically busy season of my working life, and so instead of deviating from the original discussion, I decided to pop by and give you a piece of how I regard the previous topic.

Now since I'm a girl, 'Would I prefer him experienced or inexperienced?'

You know seriously I wasn't really talking about sex per se. 'Experience' can refer to a lot of things and when I mentioned the word 'experience', I was really talking about 'experience' with life, as in not a greenhorn when it comes to a lot of matters, one of which could include sex. But oh well, I shall accommodate, and therefore my view is, 'Achelly-hoh, since I'm already 25 already and technically of marriageable age hoh, yes-lor, I would prefer him to be experienced.'

But then again, come to think of it, actually it doesn't matter, when it comes to the horizontal mambo shit. Since we're on the topic, I'll tell you some more, you know-hor, achelly hoh, to me-hor, experience or no experience also never mind, as long as he is good in bed.'

Now the problem is of course, you don't know whether he will be good in bed or not you see… (guys, please substitute 'he' with 'she', I have to generalize here and of course, I'm a girl, so I'll refer to the opposite sex as 'he'). You see this is the problem, a fengshui consultant whom I just very recently had the pleasure of meeting told me that when couples walk into a marriage, arguments are natural and necessary. And they usually argue about the following four: LOVE, MONEY, CHILDREN and SEX, in no particular order. Well, him being a fengshui guy of course had tips and techniques to counter and prevent such arguments, but still, still, before we walk into married life, OF COURSE we'd want to make everything as perfect as possible. Like sex, you know, you want to know that the person you're about to marry is going to fun to toy around with below the covers.

Seeing that 'sex' stays in a category in it's own and separate from 'love', of course, it is important that you have a good physical relationship with your other half. The two of you have to be at least compatible and at least, your sexual desires for each other must at least be the bom-cha-cha-la-la-la type (as opposed to the knncb type).

But the tricky part is, you won't really know until you try it out right?

And anyway, I'm all for abstinence, so I'm not in the mood to do that 'Try first then only buy' technique. Most things are not made to be like that, and marriages, are definitely NOT made to be like that.

So here goes, the other magic question, to keep you folks busy while I try to juggle in my next post… tell me, folks,

Just how do you predict if a person is going to be ooh-la-la match you in bed (or not)?

All your thoughts will belong to the rest of us, and any tip will be fantastically useful for those of us who have yet to decide on THE ONE.

Thank you.