just minishorts.

And you called us picky.

Blah. Okay. HERE WE GO.

Nick Tay wants a family:

At the end of the day, I look for somebody who I would want to see as the mother of my children.

OK that one acceptable lah. Women also look for somebody who can be a good man and is deserving of the rising cake that he's going to make out of her, right?

And then Viewtru, of all people, implies that he likes shallow women…

Woman with deep characters tend to be stuffy, can keep the house clean, but will send the guy eagerly to an early grave. A great relationship is like the universe dancing with itself, geddit?

SO DISAPPOINTING! OK. Viewtru, humour me. How do you define 'deep'?

There are somemore:

Kenneth said:

She should be someone who does not parties too hard, but yet knows how to have fun.. intellectual but not a boring bookworm (am I asking for too much already?)

YOU THINK LEH? TOO MUCH OR NOT?

DannyFoo said:

Wise, Organized, Mildly Dependent, A funny person, Not clingy. And on the sides, there should always be honesty, sweet, polite and understanding. There’s no barrier to age if one doesn’t care for the number that you’re branded because the person you date or marry is the person and not the number.

Erm… on the side wanna add thousand island and olive oil or not? Might taste better summore.

ruud said:

If you’re looking for a hot babe to bed then you’re not really looking for a girl at all.

OI! I so happen to be a girl and I think I'm a hot babe ok? Nothing beats a girl with self-styled narcissistic confidence. BLAH.

SaDdNesZ.jc said:

Independant to the extent that I don’t need to do everything for her, but yet, will still come to me for the occasional brut strength that a man should possess. Emotionally, she must be strong so that she can support me when I am down, as I will support her when she finds herself in the same predicament. . I do think that generally, guys like their woman to be just slightly weaker than they are… Not too much, just a little bit…

LIKE OMG can make up your mind or not? HOW lah like this?

Jeremy C gave a classic:

I am Yin, and she’s my Yang.

…and together, we will complete the Tao. OHMMMMMMMMM!!

Din's choice:

Someone I can depend on as per the saying “behind every successful man is a great woman”. Nobody is perfect, but you can learn to accept that woman into your life.

Tsk. Tsk. Ego, ego. Quite the big-O!

Ghoul is the perfect Mills & Boons candidate author:

She would be the lighthouse in the darkest of my nights, and accept me as the flame in the cold of her winters.

Like how… WOW is that, HOH?

EK wants to be the Knight in Shining Armour in her fairytale situation…

We too, as guys have our role to play to foster that situation, to make her feel loved and secure when she is with us. Unfortunately it is a fine balance, whereby a lot of women tend to get too dependent and lose the ‘subtlety’ and ruin the equilibrium.

…but doesn't fail to, erm, still fault the woman in this scenario. Check yourself out man… Equilibrium pulak. Apa ni?

Wan Zafran is rather prolific but selective. See, he wants a lot of things in the woman of his dreams, but then again, promises the following:

And in return, I promise you, my prospective wife, that I will be, and always will be, loyal, to you. I’ve got a track record for loyalty and personal principles when it comes to the matter of relationships, and I’m not about to deviate from it in any manner.

Then when dreamer-idiot came up with this

Wow, all the guys here are the type of guys almost every girl won’t mind having as a life-partner, they are sensitive, broaded minded guys who retain their ‘masculinity’ / ‘bloke-iness’.

Errr…. achelly hoh, I'm not so sure if the girls like the guys here hoh… I dunno hoh… YOU see their comments hoh… I seriously hoh dunno how to respond lor… but yeah… well… Ladies? What you think?

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This post was not meant to insult anyone what so ever. Learning about the opposite sex has to be an enjoyable experience… and it isn't always that we get to talk things out HONESTLY. So try to keep an open mind as you sieve through the comments (and how I responded to them). For all its worth, what the men have said are valid and real things that women often fail to 'supply' so to speak. But let's be civil whenever we battle out the gender issues, yeah?