Personalize your requirements, here.
Let's face the fact. We're all pretty demanding people who're too darn stuck up to admit that we're not perfect. It isn't always very easy to find moderation in a statement as forceful as the cliched 'I deserve better.'
But just what do you deserve?
Tens of months ago I posted that post about a woman's worth, which is why I didn't bother to ask what do women look for. As much as we try to remain humble, there is no denying the narcissism that underlies our basic characteristic: 'we all want something that is impossible.'
So tell me.
Just how impossible is YOUR impossible?
I'm not sure if this is just limited for the ladies, but you know. I'd like to do the guys a favour too. But I think I'll make it more interesting.
The fact sheet. Fill it in. (IT'S FOR THE GIRLS, MIND YOU.)
I am … years old. I'm current
doing…. My hobbies are … and … .
I do not like … and …. Because of that I am looking for a guy who is ….
OK that 'doing' word looks kinda dodgy, mistake on my part… you guys ah…
Or you can get creative too. I'm sure that's not a problem, the fact being that the commentors in this blog are more entertaining to read than the entire blog on its own. So, act smart!
You never know who's scrutinizing you.
And if you're already with some hot hunk, there's just a chance of someone BETTER out there. You know, it never hurts to aim higher.
September 7th, 2005 at 3:08 pm
I am 27 years old.
I’m current doing “Jennifer Aniston”.
My hobbies are “doing her from the front” and “also from the back”.
I do not like “Brad Pitt” and “his stupid butt”.
Because of that I am looking for a guy who is “willing to do to him what I am doing to Jennifer Aniston”.
September 7th, 2005 at 3:10 pm
I am 19 years old, but I look like an aging, typically bohemian 30 year-old, (no) thanks to my lush beard and wild, sprouting hair.
I’m currently majoring in Software Engineering at the University of Melbourne; the course isn’t easy for me, as I’m a hardcore slacker.
My hobbies? Hmm… I’d rather use the term, “passion”. I’m passionate about design and web standards, art, playing music and current events. I read many varied things, and as such I’m quite well-versed in many topics.
I like people who can engage in a stimulating discourse with me (non-pretentious ones only though), but who can also spew absolute crap when the situation calls for it. I like maturity. I like people with an appreciative nature.
I don’t like rude people. Let me say that again. I abhor rude people. And I loathe teens who go, “like, yeah, he was so cool, like, whateverrrrrr!”
Because of that I am looking for a girl who is… err, read my comment in the previous post.
Oh yeah, might I add, she must be motherly, in some sort of way? A huge, radiant smile always melts me in her favour, too.
September 7th, 2005 at 3:11 pm
Aiming higher?
Poor Eric.
September 7th, 2005 at 3:14 pm
KNNCB I SAID THE GIRLS LAH… you guys ah…
September 7th, 2005 at 3:19 pm
I am “XX” years old.
I’m currently “doing carrots while on the phone”. My hobbies are “having sex”, “buying carrots” and
“taking photo with my precious carrots”.
I do not like “ass diggers” and “rabbit hunters”, because of that I am looking for a guy who is “able bake me a delicious carrot cake and doing me with a carrot while baking”.
September 7th, 2005 at 3:25 pm
hahah, i re-read the post thinking maybe I missed something about guys.
September 7th, 2005 at 4:14 pm
I’m 21 years old. I’m currently Lainie’s slave. My hobbies are bumming around and playing guitar… wait, is this just for straight ppl?
September 7th, 2005 at 5:51 pm
I am 21 years old.
I’m currently not single.
My hobbies are watching Oprah and masturbating.
I do not like fat men and short men.
Because of that I am looking for a guy who is svelte, tall, smart and humps up a storm in bed.
September 7th, 2005 at 5:54 pm
Generic Gender Identity Crisis… Minishorts, you should have stated “GALS & GAYS ONLY” instead.
September 7th, 2005 at 6:00 pm
Waaah! Kimberlycun doesn’t like me anymore!! And I thought we were friends … I better stop being short! Now, where did I leave that chain and team of horses! Hope they can stretch me out long! Um … how do I tie the last peice of chain to my free arm???
September 7th, 2005 at 6:01 pm
I am 25 years old.
I’m currently torn between two eligible hunks.
My hobbies are playing with my favourite battery-operated toy and having romps .
I do not like pumpkins and okras.
Because of that I am looking for a guy with sexy eyes who is a good chef like Anthony Bourdain and won’t force me to eat my vegetables.
September 7th, 2005 at 6:09 pm
aiyah whatever lah… just say anything you want… personal ads page mah… if you have it. flaunt it!
September 7th, 2005 at 6:24 pm
Hmm..Is it me or was the guys more objectives to your question?
September 7th, 2005 at 6:38 pm
I am 25 years old.
give me all the passwords of his emails and install tracking-software in his phone so I know his whereabouts .
I’m currently ‘curi tulanging’ at work *shhhhhh *.
My hobbies are shopping, reading (your blog especially), day dreaming.
I do not like feeling unwanted, insecured, not appreciated, unimportant, can’t afford to buy things I like, lost in arguments , dishonesty.
Because of that I am looking for a guy who
1) does not tell me that I am fat or complain my boobs are small
2) give me all the attentions but give me enough private space and understand how much ‘gals-nite-out’ meant for me
3) does not have any missed call from me in his phone (means must answer every of my calls)
4) agree to everthing I said but he must have personality and his own opinions
5) calls me back when I hang up on him and never hang up on me.
6) love me unconditionally and will never change his heart.
7) buy me whatever I can’t afford, and preferably offer to pay 50% -100 % when I go for shopping
9) tells me everything (like, everything).
10) treat me like a queen and tells me that he loves me every now and then.
Ok la , it’s not like I am Miss world or something.. with the above requirements, I’ll die old, wrinkled and alone.
so back from dreams, in reality I achelly love my bf and treat him veli good 1
September 7th, 2005 at 6:45 pm
ok ppl you guys should write like eviegal. then only look like PERSONAL AD!
September 7th, 2005 at 7:49 pm
i think eviegal just about covered everything i want. oh except that i also need someone with a good sense of humor.
oh almost forgot. i’m 18. i’m currently waiting for my turn to use the bathroom.
my hobbies have absolutely nothing to do with anything remotely scientific (except for psychology, if you count that as science).
yay! it’s my turn to use the bathroom!
September 7th, 2005 at 8:06 pm
Alamak… like eviegal?
I am 22 years old.
I’m currently looking for a job. Just graduated you see.
My hobbies are Reading, surfing the net, blogging, art, anime and fantasy .
I do not like insecurity.
Because of that I am looking for a guy who is:
The main one is
1) Mentally stronger than I am. I am not talking about brains but more of confidence and their ability to stand up for themselves rather than to be trampled on. But the ego should not be that big a part of the equation. (I know that this is very hard to fulfill since I’m one of those independent types)
Other nice but unnecessary criterias:
2) Give me loads of space. I need my “me” time as well as girly times with girls. I won’t always like to talk sometimes either.
3) Understand the fact that I don’t always like dressing up all the time.
4) Has to be able to correct me when he knows I am wrong. I need to be hit over the head sometimes.
5) Not afraid to discuss things with me openly. I have had people cringing when I talked about pubic hair when somebody brought up brazilian waxing over dessert. (Amacam lar…)
Oh yes.. of course
6) Unconditional loving
Coupled with previous post of men’s requirements and above criteria, I’m gonna die alone…
September 7th, 2005 at 8:07 pm
ah okay. let me start again…
i’m 21 years old. i’m currently lainie’s slave. my hobbies are bumming around and playing guitar. i don’t like penises, bad communication, bitchiness, ppl with huge egos, materialistic ppl, no sense of humor, and apathy.
therefore my criteria are: female (not transgendered), good command of the english language, not bitchy, sufficiently self-confident yet humble, not materialistic, good sense of humor, and caring. optional criteria: fangs, dimples and wears braces.
September 7th, 2005 at 8:12 pm
Why is it the laki still want to flood the comments when it’s supposed to be strictly ladies but the ladies kept their hands off the first one?
September 7th, 2005 at 8:41 pm
Kim: fip = perempuan.
September 7th, 2005 at 9:48 pm
I am 21 years old.
I am currently doing a double degree in arts and law (actually I am currentl very sleepy and tired).
My hobbies are shopping, reading and being out in the sun (and maybe rain).
I do not like feeling incapable and weak. And yah, I do not like bad breath.
Because of that I am looking for a guy who
1. is willing to be domesticated. haha.
2. has a good dress sense so that he can be my trophy boyfriend
3. taller than me i.e >1.73m so that I can wear my killer heels/stilletoes without making him look like a goose.
4. has good hygiene. i.e change underwear at least 2xs a day and shower at least once a day for at least 15mins.
5. doesnt try to hard to be funny. I hate feeling like I am dating a very unfunny comedian
6. respects women. i.e. respects my galfrens, my mother, his mother, his sisters, me and basically all women.
7. still has a sense of humour.
8. unafraid to show his emotions but please, no emotional nutcase.
9. does not feel the need to agree with me every single time and has his own opinions. i do not like men who simply say ‘yes, (fill in lovey dover affectionate nickname)’ just to pacify their sig/ other.
10. is not afraid to swallow his pride and say sorry or please when the need arise.
i know i know.. no such guy.. so maybe thats why i am considering lesbianism. haha. Men…
September 7th, 2005 at 10:22 pm
this is cute…
i’m 24. I’m currently obsessed with reading on other ppls life (blogs). My hobbies are i can’t really think of any now.
I do not like to read much and childish-kiddy guys, Because of that I am looking for a guy who is very intellectual.. i found one but
September 7th, 2005 at 10:46 pm
I am 26 years old.
I am currently working as a sub-editor and wondering how long this bloody thing is going to take me (had a long day at work and at French class).
My hobbies are blogging, reading, knitting, window-shopping, interior deco, arts and crafts, cooking, travelling, photography and design (sort of).
I do not like feeling unstable and neither do I like feeling abused.
Because of that I am looking for a guy who
1. is intelligent and can hold a decent conversation about politics/global issues/social issues.
2. has no 1 BUT a great sense of humour as well.
3. is wayyy taller than me and at least able to ward off potential robbers and stalkers.
4. has good hygiene. i.e change underwear at least 2xs a day and shower at least once a day for at least 15mins.
5. respects women - ALL women - but not afraid to diss them when they are wrong.
6. makes a special place for me in his life by ensuring that he spends time with me as well (and not just with his family and friends) AND keeps me in the loop about his life - his feelings, thoughts, etc.
7. shares similar life principles and values - like how we view money, family, relationship, career, marriage, divorce, etc.
8. able to communicate issues he has with me and not be the caveman whenever we get into fights.
9. knows how to please me in and out of bed!
10. enjoys similar (even though slightly different) hobbies as mine.
11. gets along VERY well with my family.
12. doesn’t try to control me or tell me what to do with my life
13. humble yet confident.
14. isn’t afraid of commitment AND of possibly relocating to another country.
15. believes in the existence of God.
16. able to love me and adore me for both my bad and good qualities/characteristics - like my love and obssession with earrings, my not-so-good finance management skills and my montly mood swings (as a result from visits from the aunt).
I think that should do it for now…
September 7th, 2005 at 10:56 pm
I am 20 years old.
I’m a law undergraduate (sigh, bye social life) and currently procrastinating.
My hobbies are reading, hogging the tv remote, spending too much time online and watching movies.
I do not like feeling unstable, insecurity, liars, inferiority, worrying excessively over things i cannot control, people who have zero sense, manja people, pEoPlE WhO wRiTe lIkE ThiS (bloody fuck, that was hard) and a lot of other things, hee.
I am looking for a guy who
i also want to never have a need to use that battery operated thing anymore.. mindblowing sex. oh baby.
1) treats me like his best buddy, albeit one that he can kiss and hug all the time
2) someone that i can joke, smile and laugh with.
3) someone that willingly takes me everywhere i wanna go (a nice ride won’t hurt..)
4) someone who i can be just a little bit dependant on, but never totally. he should know that i am my own person.
5) someone that i can actually talk to, share opinions, get silly with, fight, argue and kiss and make up later.
6) he can call me by a name that ONLY he can use, and i will respond.
6) love me unconditionally and will never change his heart. (that i agree with eviegal..)
7) do things that surprises me sometimes. he does not necessarily have to buy me stuff all the time. i love little gestures.
9) tells me things that his best friend doesn’t even know about. like how he cries everytime he watches a particularly sad episode of the oprah winfrey show. a little sensitivity doesn’t hurt.
10) doesn’t mind that i sometimes want to do things without him. but, he must understand that that doesn’t mean that i approve of boys’ night out with too much beer and hot chicks around.
11) he also must be over 6 feet tall and able to give me a total sense of security. skinny little wimps won’t do it sometimes..
12) he must be able to tahan me lah… put up with my moods.
13) i want someone that i can love with total abandonment.
Judging on my criterias, i am never going to be able to find anyone. i scare people away
September 8th, 2005 at 7:40 am
Darn. What did you go and fricking start here CK? LoL.
September 8th, 2005 at 8:10 am
gee.. and you were sayin men are hard to pleased, mini?
September 8th, 2005 at 8:24 am
well i had to guide the women into doing this… the men were more responsive, and hence, ‘more demanding’…
September 8th, 2005 at 8:34 am
I agree with spiller.
For example, eviegal’s criteria for selection is extremely, extremely unbalanced. I don’t know of any guy who wouldn’t break down under that sort of pressure.
September 8th, 2005 at 8:49 am
by the way, fip, what’s with the braces?
September 8th, 2005 at 9:55 am
And what’s up with the change underwear twice a day thing. I change my underwear when I take my shower, and I usually shower once per day unless it’s a hot day, imagine having to bring a spare underwear to work everyday. And while every other gals are happily sipping their teh-tarik at 3pm, all the guys hunker down to the wash-room to change their undies.
September 8th, 2005 at 10:02 am
ray_: at night also must change mah…
or not damn smelly one you know.
September 8th, 2005 at 10:14 am
I am 40 years old (but I look like I am 25)
I’m a career woman.
My hobbies are reading blogs and leaving my comments when I think they are justified
I do not like guys who are shallow (they only want SYTs) and are too desperate.
That’s why I am looking for a guy who loves me for who I am and not care about how old I am and who is confident.
September 8th, 2005 at 10:24 am
[...] minishorts’s latest post, asked women, what they like in men. After reading the comments, I think, I’m going to be alone for a loong time. Given the criterias, 20% passing rate would be remarkable. I don’t think I’d get past more than 3 criterias. [...]
September 8th, 2005 at 11:03 am
the gals crack me up. more later. rant first.
September 8th, 2005 at 11:46 am
OoOOoooooo….FUN….
Physically, I am 21. Mentally, people think I am older than 21 (how do 21 year olds really think anyway)
Happily taken.
I am a business undergrad (mkg & econs) who tries to be the best in my studies but at the same time not look smart and kiasu
I love to do nything that allows me to pamper myself and be lazy. From a spa to sex to just lying down on the bed..that’s what I like.
My kinda guy?
1. He must be taller than me when I wear my killer heels but I dun mind him being shorter than me by 2 inches if he doesn’t mind looking short walking next to me.
2. He musn’t be a slop coz I hate picking up after his mess.
3. Is not that kayu so I won’t be stuck with a zombie or a superbly unromantic guy.
4. Who can sometimes say the same thing as me at the same time and then laugh about it and continue laughing about it throughout the relationship
5. Who is able to sometimes think about the same thing and do it at the same time
6. Who is good in bed.
7. Who is loyal and honest
8. Who can be my gal pal, my guy pal, my best friend, my BF and my lover
9. Who can tahan my moodswings and understand that it’s normal because 3/4 of the time, I’m not really a monster despite being one during that crazy one week period.
10. Who is willing to work together to improve a relationship when something goes wrong instead of blaming another party or just ignore the whole problem and say “goodbye”
11. Who shows every part of him (the weak and the strong part) and does not hide it just because he does not want to be stepped all over by the girl in the next argument.
12. I like a guy who sometimes depend on me and can be depended on.
13. He must be more of a listener because I’m one heckuva a chatterbox
The list goes on lah….
Basically, I was listing all the criterias based on what Naz has. And truthfully, I’m satisfied, happy and I thank God that we found each other.
September 8th, 2005 at 12:05 pm
To Wan Zafran : actually my criteria of selections quite balanced what, see I don’t demand for a dark/tall/handsome guy , or extremely rich (but must have money n savings to support my shopping la) , all I want is a guy to be a sucker for me
Achelly hor, i still have one more criteria I forgot to mention. I want a guy who
11) Understand me and my language , eg:
=> Yes - yes, Ok - No, No - No
=> Nevermind - I mind!
=> Anything - think of better suggestions, please!
… list goes on, most of them can be found in women magazines.
and most importantly, my shopping code :
=> half half - he pay 50% I pay 50%
=> 7 / 3 - he pay 70% I pay 30%
=> 3 / 7 - he pay 70% I pay 30% (bigger number counts)
=> thanks darling - he pay all, I could chip in some coins
Ok la I justified earlier I am not like that in real life… but my hobby is day-dreaming, so bear with me!
September 8th, 2005 at 12:05 pm
I forgot who quoted this :
” Love is for suckers , and there is one born every minute “
September 8th, 2005 at 12:15 pm
I’m 21 (22 in a month but not acknowledging it)
I work in PR and advertising and write free-lance.
My hobbies are: cooking, reading, writing travelling, watching dvds on my laptop in bed, inflicting my taste in music upon my friends by burning them music CDs, then forcing them to listen to it with me and lying on the beach on sunny days.
I do not like: touching doorknobs, being exceedingly dependent on others and people who never learned how to swim.
I am looking for a guy:
1)who makes me laugh like a bitch and actually gets my jokes (in the rare occasion that I make one)
2) with strong character, who is independent and doesnt still live with his parents eventhough he’s been earning his own bread for years.
3) who doesn’t slouch or have an inferiority complex, carries himself with confidence and knows his worth.
4) who knows that I am my own person and doesnt try to impose on that.
5) who understands how much it actually takes for me to open up to him and slightly depend on him and doesnt abuse that trust.
6) whos not going to flinch and run for the hills when I curse at bad drivers or have PMS and cry/shout/throw things for no reason.
7) who is tall, can cook and/or takes as much pleasure in food as I do.must read.
“I cannot guarantee that I won’t cheat on you, but I can guarantee that I will try my utmost not to” We all know the stats, so we dont need the lies.
9) who is polite and well mannered, intelligent, driven and ambitious.
10)who is genuinely nice to and patient with kids and old people.
11) who is emotional, sensitive and intuitive. He knows when to be macho and when to cry.
12) who’s not going to feel threatened if I spend too much time with my girlfriends or tell them things before I tell him.
13) who doesnt keep trying too hard to make me come while eating me out even though its been an hour and not happening. Sometimes it doesnt happen, so lay off the pressure.
14)who puts his cutlery together instead of splayed apart when he’s done eating.
15)who genuinely tries with my family not only because he knows how much they mean to me but because he wants to be accepted.
16)who knows the meaning of physical hygiene.
The list is endless, its no wonder I’m single. But happy single.
Ohh and all the normal stuff: loves me like mad, romantic, spontaneous etc.
September 8th, 2005 at 12:26 pm
spiller - i’ve got a fetish for chicks with metal on their teeth, but a metal tongue stud’s working very well for me nowadays
god, the lists here look discouraging. but at least you guys have an idea of what to expect in a relationship. i don’t think it’s so much the exact fit that counts, it’s the effort of fitting in to show that you really love someone.
September 8th, 2005 at 1:22 pm
Belle: “14)who puts his cutlery together instead of splayed apart when he’s done eating.”
My GF has the exact opposite knack. She likes em’ cutlery neatly placed side-by-side. I tend to put them splayed apart. Several nagging session after, she accepted the fact that her BF has a stunted mannerism.
September 8th, 2005 at 1:25 pm
Wait… you do like them placed together. Argh!!
September 8th, 2005 at 1:57 pm
god…*sigh*
will u girls please stop talking about me?:mrgreen:
September 8th, 2005 at 2:08 pm
*whacks the captain’s engorged head* *whack whack whack*
September 8th, 2005 at 2:35 pm
From what I see, you gals are looking for the perfect man…
Too bad, I’m still a little short of perfection…
If not I wouldn’t mind making all of you happy…
But then making 1 girlfriend happy is hard enough…
September 8th, 2005 at 2:42 pm
WOW!! nvr knew that there was SO much to look out for.
*must take note of ALL the ‘qualities’*
September 8th, 2005 at 2:52 pm
lol! tis is fun! keep dreaming gals!
September 8th, 2005 at 2:55 pm
hey mini, see anyone compatible to anyone? u can be a matchmaker and make one hell of money out from them!
September 8th, 2005 at 2:56 pm
coldfire: yeah hilarious should do a match making session. funny hahahah.
September 8th, 2005 at 4:32 pm
LOL…count me out…I am not looking for a perfect man coz the characteristics I listed down are all the characteristics of the guy I’m with
September 8th, 2005 at 4:54 pm
I don’t get the braces either, and she can forget it if she thinks i’m putting them back on.
September 8th, 2005 at 4:59 pm
lainie: AHAHAHAHAHH maybe it’s tingly to lick or something?
i like my partner with very nice teeth though. CLEAN CLEAN TEETH.
I mean logic lah, it would be a horrid turn off to see him/her smile with some chilli remnant stuck in between, kan?
September 8th, 2005 at 5:20 pm
Kapitan Karsinoma… that was brilliant! I laughed hard reading your post
September 8th, 2005 at 9:22 pm
Juz wanna say hi…..
Nice blog!!!
September 8th, 2005 at 9:44 pm
I better be careful when the match making session comes around … Minishorts may match me up with first woman who turns up with large knife for cutting through my Teflon suit … could be dangerous day for Dabido!
September 9th, 2005 at 1:33 am
Lol. Somehow I feel like the guys are asking for less than the girls…maybe cos theirs weren’t numbered
I’m a 19-year-old law undergrad (just started, actually) and currently very much in love with my boyfriend.
My hobbies are reading (blogs, books, mags, cereal boxers, flyers, advertisments, you name it), sleeping, hanging out with sister/friends/bf, shopping, making out.
I do not like annoying wannabes, vegetables (unless they’re cooked unhealthily), people who jump to conclusions easily (I hate being falsely accused). I’m sure I have more dislikes, but I can’t think of any at the moment.
Because of that, I’m looking for someone -
1) is patient with me and can tahan my moodswings and tantrums and idiosyncrasies (like my jealousy)
who is mentally stimulating, wise and well read 
yummy. make me swoon with more worldly info, please.
2) true to himself, not putting a front just to attract girls
3) loves me and is FAITHFUL (fidelity is very important)
4) humourous
5) who talks things out immediately and logically instead of fuming and ending the day with negative feelings
6) understand that I am sometimes irrational, illogical because I think more with my heart than head, and accept it
7) who can sustain my interest and is not boring. I lose interest very very easily with no reason at all. Once, I woke up one day and discovered my intense crush on this guy I had for almost 2 years was gone, just like that. I don’t know why either, but I’m putting it down to my impatience and propensity to lose interest.
9) Matured! I hate to be an ageist here, but older guys only, please
10) Has to be good at whatever it is that he’s doing. It sends a shiver down my spine imagining him being as talented in other departments as well
11) who works equally hard at maintaining the relationship and does not take me for granted.
Erm. I think that’s it. I just kind of desccribed my boyfriend, because I always believed that we shouldn’t set requirements while searching for potential mates. I have a friend who says she will never consider getting married to someone who can’t afford a diamond ring. I don’t think it’s logical, because if love happens, it happens. Chemistry between both of us is the only requirement for me. If chemistry and love is there, I’m confident that pretty much 90% of the troubles can be averted. I’m pretty easygoing and can accept pretty much everyone, but it’ll be boring if I just put ‘Chemistry’, right?
September 9th, 2005 at 8:37 am
i don’t know how to follow up on this, seriously.
September 9th, 2005 at 9:57 am
[...] SO HERE I AM, apologizing for sparking this off. I mean, I expected some fun things lah, but oh well. Halfway through yesterday I found bawang merah’s dejected post I almost chuckled. But I stopped short. [...]
September 9th, 2005 at 10:28 am
I agree with what entwined said. Exactly what I had in mind…ahahhaha
September 9th, 2005 at 4:45 pm
SEEING the remnants is okay…KISSING the mouth full of it is……..different.
September 9th, 2005 at 5:03 pm
its like kissing your partner when his/her mouth is still filled with popcorn. and he’s chewing it. and then you imagine hoh,,, the popcorn fall into your mouth also.
SO LOMANTIK.
September 9th, 2005 at 6:09 pm
I find it to be rather insulting that a lot of women ask for older, matured guys. It isn’t wrong, really, and it’s good that you want someone mature to care for you; however, a lot of females I meet are hardly mature, and they’ll act even more so when they’re in a romantic relationship. How ironic.
You know, some guys can act and think in a manner wiser than their age, even though they’re younger. Give them a chance, won’t you?
Heh. *hint hint*
September 9th, 2005 at 7:56 pm
Entwined: If you go back to the mens answers, you’ll find mine were numbered. Bullet points easier to read when rattling off a list.
Wan Zafran: Many women like younger guys too … you just need to chase the ones in their early to late thirties who want a YOUNG HUNK for sex only. (Sometimes the relatinships work).
I’ve met a few guys who married women who were ten years older than them. Also, one of the guys on my old football team (American football), married his high school sweetheart … she was in the year above his. (And they were a great couple).
I’m sure there are plenty of ladies who would like to nab a young man like yourself.
(Including some here).
Best of luck.
September 9th, 2005 at 8:35 pm
Girls start dreaming for the perfect man and family eversince we start playing with Barbie and Ken. But hey, doesnt hurt to dream. Too often a time, when we meet the person we really like, the criterias seem to be either thrown out of the window or are compromised. So guys, we may seem so demanding but that does not mean we are inflexible.
So be nice k? hehe.
And yes, may we all find that One person…
September 9th, 2005 at 9:04 pm
Cmon ladies, seriously think about what you are asking from the men!
I know that a lot of ladies have specific things they like, and certain requirements that must be met… but seriously? As I read the list it goes on and on about how the the dream guy should be and how they should be tall, smart, good looking, witty, with money.. etc. but most of them, it occured to me are just saying something that can be summed up in a few words.
“This list, is what makes up my perfect man”.
of course, those who aren’t single describe their boyfriends/girlfriends in their list. Fair enough, when you’re in a relationship, you tend to look at the good side of love.
But the list that are posted daunts me a fair bit. the most i can do is probably 50% of the list, not more, probably much less.
But hey, don’t listen to a 16 year old guy eh? What i’m trying to say is… don’t set your expectations TOO high… you might be dissappointed, be reasonable.
those men that you are looking for are one in a million, and there are 6 billion people ( and much more) on this earth, so just 3000 perfect men, ( half are women ). so if you really want to find him… i suggest you look hard…VERY hard.
September 10th, 2005 at 12:22 pm
i’m 18, first year medical student. Not single but available. *grin*
September 10th, 2005 at 9:52 pm
Zaxi: Other than the tall bit … I can normally make a womens perfect match.
Maybe I am one in 3000 … but none of them are strong enough to get through the Teflon suit! 
Liz: Not single but available? You mean you are a conjoined twin?????
September 11th, 2005 at 3:45 am
The last time I made a list of music I liked, I switched genres.
Then I made a list of shows I like, and I can’t remember anything about them anymore.
Then I was discussing with some girlfriends about the type of guys we like…….and I ended up with a girlfriend.
So the way I see it, your blog post has hopefully hexed quite a few people.
Or I just like to mafan my own life. Hard to say.
September 11th, 2005 at 9:57 pm
Lainie: I cannot be hexed! You think some women will turn up and finally have the strength to rip through this teflon suit! Bwahahahahaaa!
Hexed! Never! Binaried and Decimilised YES! Never Hexed! (Wooops! Computer joke!)