FireAngel = My Girl!!

“The news is out: FireAngel is still single, “
Well, it’s not through lack of trying. I just hope she is still single by the time I get to KL … not that I promise anything then, as I don’t meet her height requirement, (so shs might instantly reject me) and she hasn’t torn through the Teflon suit yet. (Which mean I’d reject her). Just being realistic. (Plus I am an OLD OLD MAN) *hits self in head with walking stick* OUCH!

“because she is very very picky.”
Nothing wrong with that. In fact, i would say that’s down right intelligent.

“Oh dear, oh dear. Can you guys please, please, please, make your move?”
No, not till I meet her in person. Let’s face it, she looks good, she talks bad, she seems intelligent enough, all good things. Still, let’s be smart about it, I really can’t make a move till my business is up and running, and I have some time to visit KL and see if there is any fireworks in person. (Other than that, she has not been voted off the island … yet. Though I might alreayd have been voted off her island.)

“Say you love her already.”
Can’t say that. At this point in time, it would be a lie. I don’t start relationships with girls by lying to them. I can say, ‘She is Kawaiiiiii – cute’. I can say I respect her. I like she is non smoker – I can be her Designated Driver if she ever gets drunk – I can say I think she is smart and will make a very good GF and wife etc … but love … sorry, that would be a lie.

“I want my friend to get the bestest of the best.”
Ah … so you do want her to have me! (Oh gees, do I sound vain or what!? Hee hee! )

“Tell her why she’s hot and why YOU should be THE ONE!”
Well, she is HOT. Any guy on the planet can tell her that! (And all the Lesbians too … and girls who like to look at other girls … and well, everyone).

Why should I be the one?

Question has many aspects to it – let’s break in into slightly different questions:
1/ Why do I think I am the one?
Actually, I can’t answer that. I do know that a lot of girls think I am a catch, as I am smart, look okay, have okay body (a little fat in places), look young for my age, am a little bit of a health freak, have good teeth, my own hair, not very hairy though on the body, and most important of all, girls trust me and think I am very nice (and I am nice even though I am NOT after sex … very unusual for some guys).

2/ Would FA think I am the one?
I have no idea. Can ony answer that if we meet in person and she thinks I am worthy of her. (Or she decides we should talk on line more often and get to know each other better – like have big Deep and Meaningful discussions)

3/ Do I think FA is the one for me?
I have no idea. See answer to 2/ and change line to ‘… and I think she is worthy of me.’

4/ Would she think she is the one for me?
Coins have two sides … no matter if I think I am right for her or not, if she ‘knows’ in her heart I am not the one, then no use crying over it, or trying to ram a square peg into a round hole.
As we have not really opened up to each other, it is too difficult to tell (and maybe it will never happen).

This probably completely negates any chance I have (with all the other droooolers chasing her), and who knows, maybe one of the other guys is the guy for her.

Only thing I can say is, I would need to get to know her better, and she get to know me better before I or her could say such things.

She has my e-mail addy – she can ask me anything she wants. I’m pretty much an open book (what you see is what you get). But, I won’t lie in order to win her heart, so can’t say “I love her.” (Not in romantic way).

[Am I being too sensible again! Pttthh!]

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