If she was THAT good you’d marry her adi…
There is one thing that my pea brain cannot understand.
Why izzit hoh, when you fall out with a friend, you're allowed to say things like 'I hate that person cos he's this this this…'
But hoh, when you fall out of a relationship, you cannot say things like, 'That MCCB is a stupid prick because he that that that…'
Chances are if you do the former it's normal you can bitch about things, but if you bitch about exes hoh, people will very kaypohchi one go and say nonsense like, 'You must learn how to let go. You don't love him anymore right? You cannot do like this'
Tiu lah let what go. I can tell you one thing, 'Loving one person when you were in a relationship, and hating the same person because he was a chao lan ciao ci bai, are TWO COMPLETELY different matters.'
Oh oh oh, btw hoh, I notice hoh, the people who very clever and say things like, 'Dear you should not be bitching about your ex-gf one you know,' are usually lamewits who have never been in a relationship before. Lemme tell you this, everyone is entitled to bitch about the ex. Why not?
If it was damn good, you'd still be together adi and the relationship would not have ended eh… so why not bitch? Bitch away.
October 5th, 2005 at 5:40 pm
because the things that annoyed you like hell about the relationship, annoyed you way more than it would have if it came from a friend, and not someone you’re dating, so the perspective is skewed?
or or or…because that’s private
or or or
Actually I dont know la.
October 5th, 2005 at 7:14 pm
Idiots need to learn to back the fuck up and let people bitch. I say the next time some idiot tells you to stop bitching and/or dissing, I say you backhand the fucker with a steering lock whilst hollering “SHUT THE FUCK UP WHEN I’M TALKING!”. And then you wait for the fucker to stop writhing, then you continue bitching.
Always remember to keep a steering lock in your handbag. Sekian, terima kasih.
October 5th, 2005 at 7:27 pm
of course can bitch..but must bitch sparingly. only then will you get the desired effect.
October 5th, 2005 at 7:35 pm
nothing’s wrong with bitching about an ‘ex’.
October 5th, 2005 at 7:59 pm
All right, you smart alecs. If your ex-es are so fucking godawful, *YOU* must be a real dumbfuck to spend all that time, money and energy on that person without first finding out more about them.
I’m still in contact with all my ex-es. We talked, found out about each other, went out, it didn’t work out, but after that, we’re not pricks to each other.
Really. GAWD. Don’t be so damn eager to jump into a relationship, you love-starved puppies.
October 5th, 2005 at 8:04 pm
whiny mahai: try that shit with me, you fuck, I’ll grab your hand in midair, *and use your own hand to slap your own damn face with the negative motor mouth*.
Steering wheel lock in your handbag?! You clearly have no sense of objectival dimensions. Yeah, try that too, and I’ll flying kick it out of your bitchy-ass hands, and stuff the whole lock down your smelly mouth. Sideways!! Biaattcchhhh!!
*insert Dave Chapelle look here*
October 5th, 2005 at 8:07 pm
Maybe some people only show their true color when they’re in a relationship? It’s like, when you’re just friends, that person seem to ‘look’ so patient but when you’re together, you realised that it’s the opposite.
Good for you if you’re still in touch with your exes (because I am too) but you have to understand that not all exes are worth keeping in touch with. And some exes are worth bitching about.
October 5th, 2005 at 8:41 pm
yeah i’m also in touch with some of my ex(es) but i also bitch about them. bitching is HUMAN.
October 5th, 2005 at 11:58 pm
I love chew bubble gum, sweet at the beginning, wen tasteless I blow balloon. Blow until big big and bust over my face, do over again. Wen really have enough wont simply throw everywhere, will throw proper dustbin and chew another one. U want mai?
October 6th, 2005 at 12:09 am
Oh I forgot I once taste strawberry flavor and wen tasteless it taste like medicine, always tell ppl how bad the strawberry flavor is.Dont ever try strawberry flavor.
October 6th, 2005 at 12:23 am
I agree with S-Kay. Some don’t show their true self until into the relationship and stuff.
Whether person has right to bitch or not is very subjective. I hate it when someone bitches while blaming the victim - like when someone gets dumped for cheating on their BF/GF and try to make out that their ex dumping them was wrong. Making out that it was okay for them to cheat and stuff.
So really comes down to why,who and what they are bitching about. Ppl can really only bitch if they have reason to. If there is no reason, then I think they should shut up.
I have no direct suggestion for who Minishorts is talking about, as I really don’t know the situation 100%. (So I will refrain from advice specific for that person).
October 6th, 2005 at 1:00 am
Something to keep us in perspective: “They are our Exes for a reason. Sometimes more than one reason.”
So obviously everything in the relationship wasn’t all rainbows and sunflowers, hence the break up with the person. Then you file that person’s name under “EX”. There is always a reason…..
If everything was so blooming perfect, you’d hold on tightly to the person, list the fella on speed dial one and you’ll list him on your phonebook as THE ONE/whatever corny name you give each other.
Consequently I’d say BITCH ALL YOU WANT abt the ex… there is always a reason for the break-up. Be it for whatever reason - true or imagined.
I am ok with all exes, excepting the first. I call that guy “ABOMINATION”, you know how much I *&@£$%T*&^ bitch abt that guy lah……….. feel free to fill in the hokkein words….
So Mini, you knw I sokong you lah on this one….
October 6th, 2005 at 1:16 am
yeah…!!
October 6th, 2005 at 2:12 am
What’s wrong with bitching?
My best friend bitches about her ex-boyfriend all the time. Of course, he was a jerk.
As long as the bitching doesn’t go out of hand, anything goes.
October 6th, 2005 at 8:23 am
October 6th, 2005 at 8:35 am
Bitching..well freedom of speech mah…. eh you can do whatever you want lah… Now.. don’t drag me into those sparing session Freedom is a privilege not right thing… Dude what I am saying.. a person can have his say and be at peace. That’s all… Bitch away man…. steering lock may be too big to fit into handbag, pepper spray will be good (Joke, causing bodily harm entails law and arrest). If bitching is an outlet to release pent up anger and beh siok, then it should be allowed to BLAST OFF !! Other ppl shutup and watch loh… if not close your freaking ear!!
October 6th, 2005 at 8:43 am
bleh, all my exes were great, and we’re still friends even.
they ended due to long distance, i don’t bitch about them, ever.
October 6th, 2005 at 8:47 am
I don’t know why but a list looks great right now.
1) As everyone mentioned, bitching is a perfectly human and natural thing to do.
2) I don’t know where people get that silly idea that if you bitch about your ex(es), it means you’re still in love with them or you haven’t let go. WTF. HELLO. I do not suffer from amnesia and I do believe that some people who say that are just stroking their own silly little small ass egos. Besides, like you said, why is it okay for me to hate a complete stranger and find him to be an idiot but if it’s my ex, it’s NOT okay?
3) “It’s childish to bitch about someone”, said a someone to me the other day. Well, think about the last time you complained about something. Did you know that it’s bitching too? Everyone has a little child in time. Everyone feels the pain. AND everyone complains. Believe it or not, I bet my ex bitches about me ocassionally to his sister, his family and even his friends. So why am I (or you) the only guilty, childish party out there?
Hm. I should write an entry about this now that I’m a bit more free.
October 6th, 2005 at 8:48 am
it’d only raise eyebrows if you started bitching about your ex’s *after* they become your ex’s…
October 6th, 2005 at 8:58 am
totoro: huh? means you have to start bitching about the ‘ex’ before they become your ‘ex’? timeline a bit screwed eh…
October 6th, 2005 at 9:42 am
I think he meant bitching during they are still together..
anyway la, I think hor, those ppl said those things that pisses you off hor, are pretty much got sick of your endless bitching about the same person over and over again..
So bitch moderately la.. You like to listen to ppl’s bitching 24/7 over the same matter or not? No right?
HHmmm.. maybe like that gua…
October 6th, 2005 at 10:04 am
I just don’t get it. Well, you, actually.
I, like her, just don’t understand people sometimes. Especially people around my age. Especially when it comes to him.
How the hell does this make me a “malicious, two-faced, conniving” bitch? How the hell does it mean that I haven&…
October 6th, 2005 at 10:44 am
bitching about the ex is fun!
releases tension and leaves a sense of vindication, since i am not the sort to leave raw prawns to rot in their curtain rods. though i sometimes wished i could.
October 6th, 2005 at 10:46 am
no one said there were any rules about anything… but it is just like “kiss and tell”.
some people have strong opinions about that. I do. So I just don’t do it. My opinion is that it is a private matter.
but hell… we all know so many other people out there do.
… everyone has a best friend I guess… a best friend to listen to juicy stuff like that.
October 6th, 2005 at 1:09 pm
relationship juv like chewing bubble gum
October 6th, 2005 at 1:21 pm
9394: OOOOOH! YEAH MAN… that’s a really good way of looking at it.
October 6th, 2005 at 5:06 pm
I always believe in the maxim, “there is always 2 sides to the coin”, and the same hold true for the precipitation factors in a breakup. There is always 2 versions. Bitching is fine, everyone bitches, it’s those that continously claim to be right that is bad. My previous relationship was called off by me because she slept around. She bitched and cursed me, but am I wrong? u decide.:roll:
October 6th, 2005 at 6:22 pm
bitching is GOOD. one reason i always come back to this blog is because minishorts is brave enough to bitch about things i can’t because i have always been taught to keep my thoughts to myself. you go girl!
October 9th, 2005 at 2:06 am
Nobody should bitch.
Guys who bitch r gays.
Girls who bitch r bitter about getting laid and then being dumped. In other words..they got owned!! Out.