Quite candid
With reference to this, I have some things to say, because I'm a guilty offender of that occasional peck on the cheek at Mid Valley Mega Mall (sometimes we even french if we think no one is staring) and my bf is also equally guilty of giving me that big bear hug when we bump into each other at the gym.
Every night when we part (Eric visits me every day for dinner, if he can), we wait at my gate, and just before he leaves he'll give me a big hug, and a peck on my lips.
Boyfriend and girlfriend mah, we're indecent like that. Cannot izzit?
Oh yeah and then I remembered, there was once when we hugged at the gate and then he suddenly said, 'Eh someone's watching us.'
'Where?'
'There!'
I looked everywhere, and then I saw that someone. My neighbour's dog.
Even the dog is decent enough to look at us for a while and then walk away. I don't think we interrupted his day much, neither did we encourage him to go find another dog to hug.
But then again, if the dog did have a girlfriend of his own, I think it's perfectly fine and applaudable if we did provoke the doggy into hugging another doggie. It's love, folks. It's peace, and it is BETTER than having bitch-fights, yeah?
April 6th, 2006 at 10:00 am
But some couples go OTT with PDA. As if they were not content with having each other, they felt it necessary to scream to the world, “yo I’m getting laid tonight na na na na na na na na na na na na an an an aaan n….”
That’s it. No more kopi for me.
April 6th, 2006 at 10:07 am
oh yeah suan, i have friends like that. mamak table oso sit on each other’s laps and lick ears. *gack*
April 6th, 2006 at 10:09 am
‘I’m a guilty offender of that occasional peck on the cheek at Mid Valley Mega Mall (sometimes we even french if we think no one is staring) and my bf is also equally guilty of giving me that big bear hug when we bump into each other at the gym.’
Sorry, ten dollar fine. You must learn to walk two paces behind Eric in public and wear complete coverage. Hey, no showing those ankles off already!!!
April 6th, 2006 at 10:21 am
Not my point of view, just quoting a comment made on LKS’s blog.
“twistedmind Said:
April 5th, 2006 at 23: 00.32
We all know for a fact, no decent Asian, kisses and hugs in public.
Saying that, did it occur to anyone, that the officer was more of a peeping tom, aiming to take advantage of a courting couple sharing a private moment away from the public, in the park? Think about it.
Today, we’re ranting and raving about biotechnology and sending a fellow Malaysian to space, but kissing and hugging is an offence! Vision 2020? Fat chance!
We’re still in the stone age! Even back then, couples were allowed to express themselves.”
I duno, i read the first line of that person’s comment and went WTF, then read the whole thing and still had WTF moment. I really hope he/she was being sarcastic in the first line. Somehow it didn’t jive with the rest of what they said.
Or else another nail in the coffin just struck home for me with regards to Malaysians. ::cry:
April 6th, 2006 at 10:40 am
Peck on the lips? Bear hug? Holding hands?I think they are alright.
But tonsil hockey and groping under clothes? That’s OTT and screams “Get a room!”
Seriously, when I see people like that, I get really offended not because I can’t get some but because things like this are meant to be enjoyed in private. Not everyone is a voyeur. =.=
April 6th, 2006 at 10:49 am
Oh boy…considering the level of public affection I’m used to (showing) here with my girl, I think I would be in serious trouble when we go back to Malaysia. Oh well…at least I know it doesn’t offend the cat and dog that live in our house too.
Though sometimes they do tell us to get a room…in so many looks. Well…too bad…because we’re in our room in the first place.
April 6th, 2006 at 11:08 am
Did anyone forget that Dr M and Rafidah Aziz hugged on national TV sometime last year after the AP fiasco?
That’s it, I’m blogging this.
April 6th, 2006 at 11:58 am
Niaseng, I don’t even have balls enough to hold hands publicly.
April 6th, 2006 at 1:09 pm
No balls to hold hands, let alone have balls to hold balls…..
April 6th, 2006 at 1:42 pm
as i have said before… just do it in the bushes like all the others and there would be no problem…..
unless someone recorded it and distribut it on the net or mms….
April 6th, 2006 at 2:12 pm
Other Kenny - So that was YOU I saw on the net!!!!
April 6th, 2006 at 3:40 pm
I remember Vincent saying that we are not the one to judge what is considered terlampau. Some may condone kissing, others merely holding hands. Its a very subjective issue. I remembered he said something about having sex in public or something like that but I don’t really remember what he said.
April 6th, 2006 at 3:41 pm
Oh I don’t know why am I ‘Yee How’
April 6th, 2006 at 3:43 pm
well there are watchdogs everywhere I suppose.
April 6th, 2006 at 4:12 pm
Very hilarious, those people just kiss and hug.
It’s not like they make love in public leaving the bench sticky sticky
Crazy cops
April 6th, 2006 at 4:14 pm
Hi minishorts,
Kissing is great. Hugging is great. And just like you, my sweetie gives me a goodbye kiss when he drops me off. But i guess we just have to be careful of not offending other people. We are afterall living in a multiracial society…people have different values.
On to something more important - pls email me. Would like to discuss a business proposition. And in case you think am some weird person who may be a criminal, give both you and me a chance. Once you have contacted me, I will reveal my true identity. You will be pleasantly surprised. Have been trying to get your contacts but you don’t seem to leave any behind.
Hope to hear from you very soon.
April 6th, 2006 at 4:29 pm
sherrie: my email is minishorts (at) gmail (dot) com
April 6th, 2006 at 5:32 pm
yee hou : You can go and check what I wrote on my blog (it was last week I reckon). That said, I never considered the possibility that they would be charged in court.
April 7th, 2006 at 8:01 pm
Erm, I’m not really sure what you wrote Vince. Its been awhile since you wrote things. A month back perhaps?