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Back to the world.
Well it was, a good experience, to say the least. And the outcome was quite wonderful, assuming that no one actually went ahead and brought names to the real-world authorities.
Whether or not the blogosphere is a complement to reality does not matter. Like Mei has so aptly put it, this is a case of a fight in a sandbox. Trust in our intelligence and civility to bring up a disagreement in a polite manner, and trust the defence to state his case, after given the time to do so and ponder on it. And when I say 'give it time', I mean, give it time.
Looking back on why going to the authorities was not appropriate. See it's so much easier to run back to a simpler argument you see, 'Don't curb freedom of speech and etc., and etc.,' when the case is so much simpler. I think the issue here is not to bring a criminal to justice, because come on here, MENJ is far from being a terrorist. The only kind of 'terror' he seems to strike is with his choice of words, but it's not like anyone has exploded or died by virtue of the slander that we've all been so enraged over, right?
Was it an apology accepted? I think most of us are satisfied, yes, but we're eagerly awaiting the day for MENJ to catch up with us and realize that the beauty in a peaceful society is best appreciated because of that one fact that differences are allowed to co-exist in harmony. That human beings, regardless of races, colours and creed, will have the sense to keep antagonistic tendencies to ourselves and allow that same love for respect to take its natural course.
It's easy for us to say 'run to the authorities' outloud, because we know that being deviant from the norm is always a left-winger's disopportunity. It leaves us with an 80% chance of winning the case, that's why we're called the majority, you see. And that's just it, knowing that you're right after all should suffice. Do you really need a certificate of approval, stamped and signed by a certain member of higher authority to affirm your convictions? Surely we're more sensible than that. That said, it really is easier to be reckless when the stakes are not so high. In this case, to put it crudely, our 'chances of winning' were more than definite ANYWAY.
So the ultimate effect was a desired one, and it's time to move on. And BECAUSE Walski69 (why haven't I heard of you before?) has been so kind to tag me with a meme, and yeah because I need a little chill out time (don't we all), I'm taking up the challenge.
i am minishorts.
i just want to say thank you to everyone for behaving like civil-minded bloggers would.
i said 'thank you'.
i want to learn how to blog with more neutrality and less profanities. and I'm still learning.
i wish my trolls would stop using my past and slips against me. mistakes aren't meant to be glorious-lah.
i hate people who think they know me just by reading my blog.
i miss not having to work for a living.
i fear God.
i hear that tigers were battling penguins over the weekend.
i wonder what happened to the natural course of things?
i regret so many awful things i've said before in this blog.
i am glad i've said them so that i now have the chance to admit regret.
i sing in the shower when no one is at home.
i cry when people do stupid things in the name of God.
i am not always very just, usually I'm quite irrational
i made three bowls of tiramisu for my boyfriend's birthday, and he said i'm bad at estimating portions.
i write for a living, sometimes. i'm working on an awfully difficult article at this point in time.
i confused salt for sugar once, and drank salty coffee as a result of that.
i need more sleeping time.
i should lose more weight.
i start my days with a prayer for grace at work.
i finish my working days hoping that the weekend comes quickly.
In the muhibah spirit of the blogosphere, I'm going to tag MENJ, ban or no ban on Malaysian IPs. Here you go. And then the other person to be tagged has got to be Shahriman Latif, because I think his blog is ultra cool.
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about 4 years ago
Yeah good that you clear it up actually.
Well, I still have a great deal of respect for you for being so civil!
about 4 years ago
Phew…Glad that the whole storm has been reasonably resolved. Well done, Minishorts.
Sincerely hope that MENJ learns from this and comes to see the ‘light’ of civil decency and respect for others, not waging holy war against ‘infidels’, but by the strength of his faith in his religion, and with the knowledge of his fintitude before the Infinite, be firstly humble. Lastly, may he not forget that the golden age of Islamic civilisation that he looks back to for inspiration was built upon the respect of differences, a principled openness to others while holding firm to the true principles of beliefs – not the letter of the law, but the spirit of law.
about 4 years ago
The reason you’ve probably never heard of me before this is probably because today makes it the 93rd day of my blogsphere presence.
Glad to see your world back on track!
PEACE!
about 4 years ago
Thanks for bringing up the story initially.
The apology is meaningless if menj doesn’t open his mind, as of now I believe he actually shut his door and move towards more extreme.. and next time when he got some critical thinking he probably he won’t blog about it, and we will have no chance to create understanding.
about 4 years ago
minishorts — thanks for your guidance in this response to MENJ’s Apologies, which some quarters said were qualified, but it’s Okay by Desi.
I’m inclined to go along your path and believe I can make a decision by COB today May 24 at 7pm to post up an Update to my Penultimate Update to announce a “Happy Conclusion”. I’m following the footsteps on several blogosphere frens like Howsy — take a hiatus. It’s been taxing, stresing but learning lesson. I don’t wish to look forward to a repeat performance. If it does happen, others pls carry the torch:(
PeAce to All, including MENJ; Thanks again to Minishorts&Mei esp.
about 4 years ago
hi minishorts,
just curious, seeing as to how you are not working at the moment…
would you be interested in a copywriting job?
mail me if you are, thanks.
keep on bloggin’
cw
about 4 years ago
chan wai: I am working, but e-mail me and i’ll point you to some people who need work. minishorts @ gmail
about 4 years ago
Its finally over and I can blog nonsense again! Great job minishorts and congrats.Jeff Ooi will probably be saying something on the whole thing, (though I think it will be very general in nature) soon I think.He knows about the apology as well.
about 4 years ago
i found out the other night that an old friend of mine from high school converted to christianity. born-again brimstone at first, she told me, but she toned it down when her sister pointed out that she sounded like those fundamentalist nuts. i myself don’t believe in god and find the bible to be interesting but useless. i have great difficulty having any kind of conversation with a very religious person my age because they have not developed much of a personality outside of their belief system in most cases.
it’s not the difference in language that prevents communication. it’s the ontological hierarchies and moral code that permeate their speech that prevents me from interfacing with them. i can communicate with pretty much anyone as long as there is some wiggle-room. the old friend is just getting into the whole christianity thing so i’m sure it’ll become easier to talk to her when she eases into it or abandons it.. i don’t have much hope for her abandoning it, though, because when people get into that they become addicted. quite often for life. i have my own addictions that often make me miserable but what’s most important for me is fluidity.
plus, she doesn’t laugh at my twisted humor and play along with the spectacle anymore. ah well.