Live in the times.
You know, I'm a conservative traditionalist mostly, but I'm also quite modern most of the time. As in, I'm attracted to modern, innovative members of the opposite gender who are able to hold a good conversation.
Of course like most women, we're charmed by the occasional pick up line (if it's creative), and the occasional interesting, never-seen before methods do bring a smile to our lips, even if we're openly attached, there's no harm in flirting, once in a while.
But sometimes, hello, please don't over do it.
Overdoing it is when you meet a girl at an official function, say a few obligatory how are you where do you work what it's like there, exchange cards, AND THEN, run back to your office within half an hour and send an email asking her to go out for lunch with you.
And when she says, 'I'm not free for lunches,' you're not smart enough to take the rejection, and follow up with more.
Double overdoing it is after three obvious hints, you send an sms to her with this simple line, 'DID YOU GET MY EMAIL?'
Urm. I think so. I'm just pretending that I didn't get it because you're very annoying, and hello? I am attached. And even if I were single, I wouldn't be attracted to YOU!
These things take chemistry, you know? And right now. Well, you're lacking in a little something. So well, buzz off.
June 23rd, 2006 at 12:27 am
Oh, so you actually did get my email.
June 23rd, 2006 at 1:02 am
What if that person is not really interested in you and this is the way that person treat or build a friendship?
June 23rd, 2006 at 1:11 am
some guys are really consistently annoying but ended up getting what he want. i know one guy consistently pikat this particular pretty girl although she have a handsome boyfriend. so, never underestimating them. oneself never know what he can do until you suddenly change your mind and heart.
point to ponder: does really love is blind or its perfectly 20/20 vision?
ps - waw.. ^_^ nice header photo..
June 23rd, 2006 at 8:14 am
Some people just have a thick skull, skin and hide. But can’t blame them sometimes oso - looking at your new header, you’re so CUTE la! :p
June 23rd, 2006 at 11:04 am
Nice header. Nice hair.
June 23rd, 2006 at 11:08 am
ouch, that was a little harsh.
cant blame a man for trying. men being men.
just my two cents.
June 23rd, 2006 at 12:33 pm
A lunch invitation by e-mail? *tsk tsk tsk*
June 23rd, 2006 at 2:13 pm
Babes, this a tame description compared to what actually transpired. I’m still keeling over with certain choice phrases of his. [snorts]. One wonders which medieval era he sprouted from…(-_-”)
June 23rd, 2006 at 2:37 pm
It proves that you’re still in demand
June 23rd, 2006 at 2:37 pm
Elaine: yang tu perlulah private sikit. Faham faham lah.
June 23rd, 2006 at 6:42 pm
Ah, but if he had been someone you fancied, you’d probably have gone “OMG, and he immediately rushed to his office to send me an email asking me out! Swooooon! That was SO sweet!”
June 23rd, 2006 at 6:49 pm
hahahahah JAY yeah you’re right if you put it that way, BUT unfortunately i’m not in a position to swoon or fancy anyone else.
and I’m really, really, very loyal. SERIOUS.
June 24th, 2006 at 1:18 pm
hm… nampaknye saham masih laku.