You know, I'm a conservative traditionalist mostly, but I'm also quite modern most of the time. As in, I'm attracted to modern, innovative members of the opposite gender who are able to hold a good conversation.

Of course like most women, we're charmed by the occasional pick up line (if it's creative), and the occasional interesting, never-seen before methods do bring a smile to our lips, even if we're openly attached, there's no harm in flirting, once in a while.

But sometimes, hello, please don't over do it.

Overdoing it is when you meet a girl at an official function, say a few obligatory how are you where do you work what it's like there, exchange cards, AND THEN, run back to your office within half an hour and send an email asking her to go out for lunch with you.

And when she says, 'I'm not free for lunches,' you're not smart enough to take the rejection, and follow up with more.

Double overdoing it is after three obvious hints, you send an sms to her with this simple line, 'DID YOU GET MY EMAIL?'

Urm. I think so. I'm just pretending that I didn't get it because you're very annoying, and hello? I am attached. And even if I were single, I wouldn't be attracted to YOU!

These things take chemistry, you know? And right now. Well, you're lacking in a little something. So well, buzz off.