On choices.

Saturday, August 12th, 2006 @ 9:15 am | Diary-writer

You know, sometimes, I want to go back to the times where I didn't have to give-a-damn about difficult issues like race, religion, cultures, idealogies. Back to a time when Philosophy could be labelled as just 'the most bloody difficult core subject' for Literature minors. Pushed into a reality where people would kill and fight (not necessarily with physical weapons) just over differences of opinion towards an idea, we all have to consider this, 'What's the reason we're here on earth?'

Don't worry, I'm not about to preach religion here.But I've been thinking, you know how everyone says that we're all on Earth for something, or how the universal truth goes by, 'You can't choose your parents,' or 'there are somethings you just cannot choose?' I've been thinking about the things that, you know, they can't say you can't choose, the things that you need to accept and carry out no matter what. I wanted to list them down, because I think, it's relevent, in this time. I know, I know this, I can't choose the following, Earth-concepts:

1. parents, siblings, family members
2. the country in which I was born
3. the religion in which I was born to
4. the primary school that my parents first decided to send me to
5. this Earth, this planet I'm born to

I know I cannot choose most of the things above, they'll stick with me till my dying days. Unless of course, I choose to

1. Denounce every single member of my family, maybe due to a break-up of catastrophic proportions?
2. Leave this place and migrate to 'greener pastures'? Just in case I get fed-up, y'know?
3. Convert! It's pretty simple for me, but not so simple for others.
4. Can't do much about this except go about pretending I never went to that school, or make up a fictional tale about some school I never went to in order to erase my past.
5. Erm. Fall in love with an Alien and migrate overspace?

I'm looking at the lists above, and I just realized this. Have you notice how for items (1)-(4), even though technically we cannot 'choose' their origins, there's always another option alternative to the original? Even for item (1) the fact that we can't choose our original families; some people have denounce family bloodlines before and started completely new ones! It's not a new thought. The fact is, this Earth has ample of choices for almost everything in every category. It's what you choose that makes you what you are.

Except the last item. The fact that we cannot choose the planet we're born in. Alamak now that's a dilemma right? Say I hate Malaysia because its laws are somewhat draconian, I can always try to move out of it, let's say I move to Singapore. Then maybe I hate it because it's too sanitized, so I'll move to maybe Thailand. I can keep on moving from country to country until I find a nice place to settle down in.

But if I don't like Planet Earth, I can't very well fly out of the planet and settle down on the Moon, for example. It's just physically and logically not possible. Now, unless I choose to commit suicide and see where that takes me, I suppose I'm just stuck on earth. With all it's inadequacies and injustice, and the stupid people that seem to be multiplying like bunnies by the way. Even with the wars and the idiocy and the increasing number of fundies that annoy me to death. So I'm stuck here, and I have to tolerate these people no matter what.

I can do that. I know a lot of people can do that. The question is, why is it that FUNDAMENTALISTS cannot seem to get it into their brains that they have to move along just like the rest of us?

Strange place, this world.

14 Responses to “On choices.”

  1. Swifty Says:

    Their minds work differently.

  2. Licko Says:

    Just accept it the way it is.

  3. noor hidayat Says:

    or just leave it be and act as if nothing happened… ignorant is bliss? :P

  4. noor hidayat Says:

    or just leave it be and act as if nothing happened… ignoranance is bliss? :P

  5. Emmanuel Says:

    I disagree.People must know that other people think what they are doing is wrong.

  6. alt Says:

    I really like this post. Your reflection is quite impressive. You asked some fundamental questions.

    But are you sure that tolerance is the solution ?

    The tolerating choice is kinda inactive but it’s a choice.

    A very interesting post though.

  7. Captain Carcinogen Says:

    5. this Earth, this planet I’m born to

    really? thats weird. my great leader, the awesome high priest of Xenu said that day he’ll take me on a space ship to some distant planet in sector XT 298

  8. Googoo Says:

    Fortunately Christians are quite tolerant of other religions. We all want blonde hair, white skin (like minishorts), pretty face, long hair, cute butt and a firm tummy but some of us just didn’t get them. God was somewhat selective.

  9. dreamer idiot Says:

    It’s interesting to see you recasting the question of determinism and free-will. Sartre’s ideas definitely form / influence much of current thought and beliefs.

    Fundamentalism? we generally subscribe to a degree of fundamentalism… whether we are away of it for not… perhaps, a better term would be ‘orthodoxy’.

  10. Andrew Says:

    @Googoo
    IMHO, quite a number of religions are pretty tolerant, although there will always be fanatics in every religion.

  11. walski69 Says:

    I’ve found that the best way to deal with them is to not pander to their tantrums, and ignore them as much as I can. Sometimes it is attention they seek, more than anything else.

    But one characteristic I’ve found is that they insist they are the only ones that are right - a rather typical characteristic of conversatives, in my opinion. Okay, maybe a very broad generalization, but that’s from my own experience. More liberal minded people can agree to disagree on something - conservatives generally don’t, and insist on ensuring their point of view prevail, and everyone else must agree - differing opinions are simply unthinkable.

    Oh well, in the final analysis, there will be all kinds of people you’ll come across at one time or another - some tolerable, some not - it’s the difference in people we meet that makes life interesting sometimes. ;)

  12. senbai Says:

    I believe that’s what makes life interesting :)

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  14. Baha'iman Says:

    I”m constantly bullied by Malay classmates during high school just because my religion is Baha’i. You know lah Baha’i is a Islamic version of MOrmonism.

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