The Cut and Die-hard Managers

Tuesday, November 27th, 2007 @ 2:47 pm | Wedding-planner

The headaches of headaches.

We're undecided. Its either a princess cut, an A-line one or the mermaid cut. Both Eric and my mom want me to be in a mermaid cut dress, but my personal dream is to walk down the aisle in a princess train (who doesn't want to be a princess anyway, and the only time you'll be let off for wearing huge dresses would be on your wedding), but the A-line cut is cool too. Mermaids are… well….

Here are some of the ones I fancy from theknot.com.I love the site, I hang out there every other day looking for ideas.

I'm going for a strapless number, although a little voice beside me wants me to take a dress with long sleeves and lace, most people around me agree that it will make me look old….

There was a wedding fair at Mid Valley at the weekend, and Eric and I, like any conventional Malaysian couple, decided to go check out the supposedly 'better prices' that bridal fairs had to offer.

Man the convention hall was like a freakin marketplace.

We decided to weave our way down the crowded lane and then I ended up at Love Vision's exhibition area.

Enter the Manager from hell. Should I mention a name? Hmm… ok nvm, just remember, a manager from Love Vision (I'm not sure whether its SS2 or Loke Yew's branch).

Here was what we were looking for: no bridal photo shoots, just the photos for the actual day itself, and a package that would include the wedding dress, one evening gown, a man's coat (I have no idea why they call it a man's coat, but well…) for Eric, the flowers (the bouquet and Eric's boutonnière) and the car decorations. Well, let's up the cost for a designer range gown from DNL, shall we?

We were quoted a 'fair' package rate, for the clothes and flowers alone the lady quoted us at around RM1800.

'That's not too bad,' we started.

That's when the force-selling started. 'OK, if you are ok with the price, we have to seal the deal today, you just have to pay a 30% deposit, and then you will confirm, now that your wedding is a year ahead in time, at least you can book the better dresses first.'

Manager whips out book with photographs of very blurred dresses. 'We have very nice dresses, no problem one, if you walk in and sign up the prices are more expensive,' she picks out another album with price lists and flips through the pages…. 'so if you sign up now at least you've sealed the deal on these prices, and you know that this is a competitive rate right?'

'Yes it is,' Eric goes. 'We want to see the dresses first.'

'OK, that's a problem, if you walk out of here, this price is off… but if you seal the deal with 30% of the payment, at least you know you have the clothes for the great price.'

'Errr… my wedding is next year, I heard there're a few more fairs coming up, so when are you coming back, or at least my fiancee and I can go check out the clothes at your branch first, but really we can't decide now…'

'You know this price is really very good, if you walk away this price won't be there.'
'We're not going to pay now, we must see the clothes first.'
'Are you sure? If you walk to another place, you probably will get more or less the same kind of designs' (WTF??? HELLO?) ' but definitely at a higher price, you know? At least if you just pay 30% now, for sure you know you only pay about RM1800 for designer range you know?'

'I'm sorry,' Eric goes. 'But not now.'

The manager smiles, says 'its okay', and then she walks away just because we're not going to pay the 30%…

WAH LAU, do business also no need to be so pushy kua….

OK I'm going to Pretty In White this week, see if their custom-made-to-measure packages will delight my senses.

12 Responses to “The Cut and Die-hard Managers”

  1. Alexa Says:

    Hi Claire, i’m in the midst of preparing for my wedding too. Headache ok!:) Btw, i found this site, which has been very useful for me. from opinions on Boutique selection, to wedding cards printing to venues in KL etc Great to browse through.

    http://www.malaysiabrides.com/forum

    Have fun! :)

    I’m already a member on that site hahaha

  2. Nicholas.C Says:

    Why i don’t want to get into wedding photography :P

  3. april Says:

    Wei! Woman! how many times we went over the Long sleeves liao!!!! NO LONG SLEEVES! YOU DON’T WANT TO LOOK LIKE AN OLD DAME

  4. lovie Says:

    Strapless ones are nicer. =)

  5. pelf Says:

    All the more reasons you shouldn’t visit that bridal shop! One down! :)
    I just hate it when somebody walks away just because I’m not making a payment.

  6. JT Says:

    Yeah, check out pretty in white in Desa Sri Hartamas, heard they’re quite good but recommend you give them a call first as the place can be pretty packed on Saturdays.

  7. The Horny Bitch Says:

    Congratulations.. =)

  8. lynn Says:

    Hi miss minishorts.

    Do check out Pretty in White. Since you’re going to be in Desa Sri Hartamas, do check out That Special Occasion too for your dresses.

    Also, there’s a member’s card from http://www.weddingsmalaysia.com that offers discounts and some freebies from their business partners. Perhaps you’d like to check it out?

    If you’re looking to customise your invitation cards, you can give Just Scan a try. They offer very good quality prints and also allows you to design your cards or any stationary.

    As for photography, Edmund Tham offers good prices and his pictures are amazing.

    I hope I’ve helped. Congratulations!!!

    I’ll check out That Special Occasion and Just Scan too thanks for the heads up. I’ve more or less selected my photographer though, but let’s keep that underwraps. Focus, focus!!

  9. blusher Says:

    Ooh…I like the top two dresses. Very simple yet elegant.
    Have you guys decided which photographer suits your requirements?
    You can check out Louis Pang at http://www.louispang.com/blog/. He’s my high school senior and has great reputation with his photos. Not sure about the prices though. Good luck!

    Aiyoh his pricing starts from 7k and above lah…. cannot cannot… i love his photos though. but my budget can’t take such extravagance…

  10. blusher Says:

    Wah! So blardy expensive? No wonder he’s rich now. LOL!

  11. 3-Seconder Says:

    IMHO which i’m voicing it out, i do feel it’s very very grand and princessy to be walking down the aisle with a long trail and a princess cut dress. Maybe you can choose the not-too-puffy princess dress :)

    omgosh.. the wedding cakes are so adorable !

  12. hannah Says:

    Good idea only having photos on the actual day. What IS it with studio photos being taken months beforehand anyway? So tacky. Plus people never smile as wide or look as naturally happy as they do on the real day.

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