Different Conversations
You know it's interesting how people tend to grow into the shoes that they're given to wear… so it's true, that old saying about you'll always be able to handle whatever given situation you're in.
Like how I used to believe that I would never want to get married? Or way back when I was just 10 I told my friends that boys suck and I'll never want to kiss one?
So right now ha ha, I'm engaged and getting ready to get married soon, and there's the scary thought of what's it like giving birth coming into my head already. Eric says he wants to have babies in 2009… so its a crazy journey going into that part of the analysing, but being the kind of MM-queen I am, I can't help it, it's natural I just zone off into areas of my life not meant for thinking about!
So there's the questions - What's sex like? What's sex going to be like? How's my conversations with my mom going to be when it's open that I'm now having sex with Eric? As it is she is already being awkwardly open with her conversations and the types of food she's boiling for me. Every month, for example, I take pak-cham like every good Chinese girl does, and previously it was for health reasons, for beautiful skin, to clear pimples bla bla. Now, Mom says, 'It's to protect your uterus, to make sure you're okay…'
Just the other day I was complaining about how bitter the Pak Cham she made was and she said, 'Well you better drink it, because looking at Eric, I think you better nourish yourself more so that you've got energy… you know when husbands come home and the wife's not in the mood, it's not so good for the marriage. You don't want Eric to run outside for his needs right?'
'Errrr Mom…'
'Eh this kind of talk MUST talk one okay… so that you know why you're drinking that stuff… so DRINK.'
So anyway, that's my Mom for you. Already even Eric's aunt is being like this to me. Like two nights ago we went out for supper together, and then we were talking about naked women and naked men… and Eric's aunt was teasing him about being able to see me naked…
Eric went, 'I have the rest of my life to see her naked.'
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The kind of conversations we have these days. I am NOT into talking about my impending sex life in the public! NOT NOT.
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Wait, I think I just did.
January 16th, 2008 at 11:40 am
Let me ask the readers. Without sex, then how do you explain your arrival into this world? Sex cannot run away from your birth and your existence.
As far as I’ve read, sex is just part of a relationship. Yet it plays a big difference. It is good for health.. oh don’t forget, it is meant to enhance the intimacy of both sexes. Go ahead and mutiply! That’s what God has said to Adam and Eve. Owhh, I’m not going to go into the academic nature of reproductive biology at this point =P
From what I see in this entry, your mother loves you, even though you’re married to someone else. Even though you’re a guy, it is still the same. Hereby I quote an excerpt from “A Figure Forgooten in Hours Not-of-Need” by Kee Thuan Chye:
Sons grow from your breasts,
And yearn for the the breasts of others.
And daughters, when married,
Belong to the in-laws.
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You stoutly go your humdrum way.
Her love for you NEVER ENDS.
January 16th, 2008 at 11:48 am
This is cute.
Well, I’m already 20 and my mom treats sex when its a topic of conversaion like its a taboo thing; though we do make very crude jokes, especially dad.
January 16th, 2008 at 12:52 pm
Good Lord, I don’t know what I’d do if my mum were to talk about sex to me. I couldn’t even go into La Senza with her to buy slutty underwear!
January 16th, 2008 at 2:32 pm
sex is overrated
January 16th, 2008 at 11:56 pm
But that first time must really stay in your head, like who’s idea it was, who got to see first, how long was the waiting time before both got to see. Guess we’ll never know. Just an idea for a post, that’s all.
January 17th, 2008 at 10:41 am
A very much overdue congratulations from me.
And when you start popping them out, I’m sure we’re gonna have plenty more to read about and having to be here when you need another space.
January 17th, 2008 at 4:04 pm
To k0k (post no. 3 above):
try it with a person of the opposite sex and you may eat your words.