Surrender.
I have surrendered to the stress of getting married. Preparing for a wedding has got to be one of the most stressful things a person can ever go through. Especially if you're Chinese. Especially if you're from a Single Parent family. Especially if your spouse to be is also from a single parent family. Especially if you're from a family that values traditions very strongly. Especially if your spouse to be comes from a family that values fundamental religious beliefs very strongly (and very strongly, here, is an understatement).
That said, I have a newfound respect for those who have been married for 20 years and above and still going strong at it.
July 14th, 2008 at 1:20 pm
It is all in your mind!
Just preparing already surrender? What happen about delivering a baby? Can you surrender when you are in midst of delivering? See how many babies are delivered daily? See how they grow up and become as big like you?
Just have some fun and please don’t take things in life so seriously, ok? Even God have fun with his creation.
July 14th, 2008 at 5:03 pm
well, stay single then!
July 14th, 2008 at 11:06 pm
Trust me, when it’s all over, you’d wish you could have a wedding all over again. THEN, you give yourself a knock in the head.
July 16th, 2008 at 2:03 am
I’m available. Want to marry me? Otherwise the chinese thing also can
July 16th, 2008 at 5:42 pm
dis is actly the-not-so-hard part oredy….
imagine u have kids, n the family have all their hand foot n mouth on the way u raise the kid…i dread tat day..shit